Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Week 25: Tuesday November 26, 2013

Family,

   Well, I'm on Negros! There is a city in Negros called Dumagete which is the so-called "Promised Land" of our mission. It's where everybody wants to go. They have American food, cars, it's not that hot. . . I even hear they have Dr. Pepper over there! It sounds mysterious. I want to go there. Then there is my area, Bais. It is the most bukid area on Negros, so I am back in the middle of the jungle. Having said that, I can also tell you that it is absolutely the most beautiful place that I have seen in the Philippines. The views are breathtaking. I will send you some pictures after I send this letter. 

   Before I forget, I just want to say that I received the package that mom sent & the pictures that grandma sent. I'm also so stoked that Desert Hills took state! In all honesty, I thought Pine View would have beat them with Wilstead at QB. Regardless, I am pleased with the outcome. I wish I could have been there! Chipper sent me some pictures. It looked awesome. 

   Okay, back to my mission. As I said last week, my companion is Elder Andus & he is coming from Tocloban. He has been out for about 10 montlhs. His area was about 40 minutes away from the city & center of the most damage, so he didn't get hit as hard. His house even survived! He showed me pictures though, & the damage was extremely extensive. We talked about going to the city after it all happened & it was pretty bad. He said it smelled terrible because of all of the dead people just laying all over the place. There is no water, no food, no shelter. People were robbing stores, including missionaries, just to get food. He could here gunshots & people being killed. It sounded like such a crazy situation. I am honestly a little jealous that he was able to experience something like that, but I'm sure you are all glad I wasn't there. Anyway, he is from South Jordan & went to Bingham high school. He is very funny & we get along great! 

   Since we are both new to the area, that means that we are opening the area! It's a brand new area & it is our responsibility to find & teach people. The area used to be one big area, but has been split into three. We have two other Elder's in our apartment & they are both Filipino, so I am speaking a lot of Visaya. It's great though, because I can ask them questions if I don't know a word or if I am confused about something. We had a coordination meeting the other day to figure out exactly where the split of the areas were & to transfer teaching records into our area book. After all of that, we have a grand total of 5 people in our area book. For those of you who have served missions, you see the task that lies ahead. Normal missionaries plan out their days according to people that they are going to teach that day. We plan on going around & talking to people on the street almost every day of the week. It's incredibly challenging, but I the same time, we are already having some great success. I have a few stories to share with you from this week.

   The first story is about that Andaya family. The Andaya family was given to us when the area split & we have started teaching them. We had a lesson with them last night & it was incredible. We started teaching them & we started with the first lesson since they have not yet been taught. We started teaching them & asking them questions, & the lesson went great. The father shared with us his testimony of prayer & how he always prays that he can provide food for his family, find work, etc. He was pretty emotional & it really brought the spirit. After the lesson, we asked them what they were thinking & feeling & they expressed to us that they believe everything we taught them. We gave them a copy of the Book of Mormon & without even reading it they told us that it's true. I hope they feel the same way after reading it! The only problem is that they expressed to us their devotion to Catholicism. We aren't especially worried because this is the case with almost every single person that we have or ever will come in contact with. I really hope they get baptized.

   The other family is the Jamito family. This story is great. Chad, you mentioned an experience in your e-mail that just made me laugh, because me & my companion had almost the exact same experience last night with this family. We found this family on Sunday while we were out looking for people. We taught them the first lesson on Sunday so we were continuing on. We were sitting there teaching them a great lesson, & all of a sudden....the power goes out! As I have stated before, power-outages are extremely common here. The power went out around the beginning of the lesson so we taught the family in the thick blackness of night, in the middle of the jungle, with nothing but a small candle in the middle of the room. The lesson was incredible. They told us that they had a neighbour where they had previously lived who was a member & they had been wishing for a few years that the missionaries would find them & teach them. Like my experience a few weeks ago, me & Elder Andus were the missionaries who found them & taught them. They also asked us about the temple. They had seen pictures before & were curious. After explaining a little about it, they expressed to us their desire to enter the temple as a family. There, in the darkness of the night, in a jungle in the Philippines, we committed them to be baptized, & they accepted. Almost immediately after we said "amen" to close the lesson, the lights lit up the house & we could clearly see the tears in their eyes. 

   There are times when missionary work is extremely difficult, as it is now in opening an area with no one to teach, & there are times when everything goes right. There are times when I want more than anything to just be back at home, able to take a hot shower, eat regular food, play my guitar, & climb back into my own familiar bed. There are times that make me sad when I think of leaving this place behind. Next week marks my 6 months in the field, & since there has been an increase in missionaries, new & those coming from Tacloban, I will probably we sent home 2 weeks to a month early, so my time is only getting shorter. It's been an unforgettable journey thus far.

   I can't wait to see you all in a month! Don't laugh at me if I start to cry. I know you all will. Well, at least Starr & Madison. Hopefully I will be feeling a little better by then. I have a bit of a cold. Seriously? Who gets a cold in the Philippines? 

   Okay, I will try & send pictures now. Hopefully it works. Cross your fingers! Love you guys.

Elder Staheli



Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Week 24: Tuesday November 19, 2013

Family,

   I can never remember the date. Before I start, I have to tell you that the keyboard that I am typing at is missing the letter in the middle of q & e, so if I say some phrases that sounds strange, just understand that I am going to have to be creative this e-mail. If I can't think of another phrase to replace it, I am going to put it in quotation marks, so that is your key for this letter. Also, it doesn't capitalize "d". So yeah...

   Like I said, I tried sending pictures, & I have a lot, but my camera died. I'm sorry! I am going to have to send them next time. 

   Okay, I have a lot to say! Let me start off by telling you about transfers! Another transfer has come & gone. It's pretty crazy to think! So, I have been here in Labangon for 1 transfer along side Elder Toluta'u. Me & him have had some hardships, but me & him have also had successes. Having said that...I'm transferring! Everyone thought that he "ould" transfer because this is his 2nd transfer here, but I am the one transferring! I actually really enjoyed this area. The people have been so great & there's just something about it that has been really cool. But my "ne" area is on Negros! I am so excited! I hear Negros is the best. My area is called Bais. My first area is considered "bukid" or in English, it just kind of means jungle/"ilderness"/mountains. Here, it is mostly city, but there is a place in our area that is kind of bukid also. Bais is another extremely bukid area. After hearing that, I "as" a little bummed, but thinking about it, I'm sure it is going to be great! I'm actually really excited because people in the bukid are much less educated, so they don't speak hardly any English. I am hoping that this is the area that really helps me become a great speaker of the Visaya language. This also means that I am getting a different companion. He is an American missionary that just transferred here from Tacloban! I'm really excited. I can't remember his name though...is that bad? I'm sure he is a great guy. I'm very excited. That also means that I have not yet had a Filipino companion. I'm kind of disappointed because I think that I could learn so much more about the language if I had a native companion, but I also love American companions because me & him can relate to each other & talk about American stuff. 

   Are you all excited about Christmas? I am so excited! This transfer is my Christmas call! I hope you are all as excited as I am. Starr, I need you to figure out that google hangout thing & tell me the things that I need to do to get it set up. If you can't figure it out, maybe just Skype. I think you can Skype more than 1 person at a time, but I'm not sure. 

   Okay, story of the "eek".  Me & Elder Toluta'u received a referral from the sister missionaries so me & him decided to contact it. Actually, me & him "ent" on splits "ith" the ZL's so me & Elder Smedley contacted it because it turned out that the referral "as" actually in their area. Me & him found them & they fed us dinner before our lesson. I'm sure you have all heard a missionary tell you about "that family". The family that just made their entire mission. Needless to say, I feel confident in saying that this lesson may turn out to be the very best that I have on my mission. As our lesson started, me & Elder Smedley started to talk to them about their lives. There is the husband & "ife", their one child, and the husband's brother. The mom has been a member for a very long time, but has not been to church in about 9 years. Even though she didn't go to church, she still lived the teachings of the gospel. She didn't party or curse or anything like that. Nobody else in the family has been baptized. The husbands brother is from Negros & he said that the missionaries visited him there & he has had a desire to be baptized for a very long time. The husband has an amazing story. He took about 10 or 15 minutes telling us about his experiences & it is incredible. He told us that he is Catholic from birth & during his life he has drank & smoked & done all of these things. He said that one night he attended a party for his job, he sells homes, and he noticed one of his co-"orkers" outside sitting alone on the balcony. He joined him & started talking to him. He asked the reason he didn't join the party. He told him that he is a Mormon & doesn't drink. He "as" in shock. He didn't understand the reason that his religion had such a big impact on his life. He said that he later met his "ife" & she said the same thing. He did not understand. He then told us "ho" amazing it is that me & my companion gave up 2 years of our life to be here. "You guys are so young. You could be out experiencing the "orld". "Ho" is it that you have so much discipline? "hy" does this church mean so much to you?"  He asked us these questions "ith" tears in his eyes. At that point me & Elder Smedley proceeded to tell him our personal stories. To make a very long story short, the mom told us, as tears fell from her eyes, that she had been praying for the last 9 years that the missionaries "ould" come & save her family. She said that she had been "aiting" for that moment for 9 years. Me & Elder Smedley "ere" the first missionaries to visit their family ever. She thanked us & told us that me & him had saved her life. There "as" not a dry eye in the room that night. It's hard to express in "ords" the things that happened fully & the things felt. Especially since I am missing a letter. Such an amazing experience.

   I hope you are not confused because that "as" extremely difficult. I am tired & frustrated "ith" this keyboard so I am going to end it here. Love you guys. 

Elder Staheli


A few things Dylan mentioned later as we were emailing back and forth..

OH shoot, I forgot to mention that "e challenged them to baptism & they accepted! Sorry, I "as just frustrated. I forgot to mention that.

Oh, that's the other thing! "e have a temple session planned for next "ednesday, but seeing that I am going to be on Negros...No session for me... *sigh*



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Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Week 23: Tuesday November 12, 2013

Family,
   Since my last e-mail a few days ago, not much has changed. I received an e-mail from dad stating that all of the missionaries have been found and are safe. What a blessing! I'm so happy they are all fine. However, seeing that their mission is more or less destroyed, many of them are being temporarily transferred to our mission. I think some are already here & there are 4 elders from the Tacloban mission that will be staying with us for I'm not sure how long. They should get here today or tomorrow. I'm pretty excited; hopefully it will be one of my batch-mates! It would also be awesome if Conner Murdock or the Wilstead kid stayed at our apartment. Anyway, all is fine & you can all stop worrying about me. Nothing has changed. Life is going on as normal here in Cebu. Well, I have been asked many questions from you all (especially from Madison) so I will try to answer those for you all! Speaking of Madison. . . I can't believe you e-mailed my president. You are still acting like mom, even 7,000 miles away! I just laughed when you said that. That's so you. I do appreciate your love & concern for me. I know that you are just worried about me. Thank you.
   Question time! Yes, I have adjusted to the humidity (as much as you can, I suppose). In fact, some days I actually quite enjoy the weather. There is a nice breeze & even though it's like a million degrees outside, my body appreciates the small bursts of wind that come occasionally. I still wish it was freezing, but that's not going to happen. In the city it is a little worse, probably because of the pollution & whatever else, but it's not as bad as I thought it would be. I haven't seen my mission president since, but it's P-day today & we are going to the zoo! We are also going to stop by temple grounds to get a few things, so maybe I will see him there. Our apartment is 2 jeepny rides away from the temple grounds where his home is, so it usually takes about 30-45 minutes depending on the traffic. The day of the typhoon, the electricity did go out for a while, but only for about 10 hours or so. The 2 week brown-out in my last area was much worse! We still have a few service projects planned. People still need a little bit of help with things, but like I said, it's not even remotely as bad here as it is in other places. If you are getting a package together, I could use some deodorant. I am about to run out, & I could buy some more here, but it's pretty expensive. If I need too, obviously I will. I don't want you all sending me big packages though! I know that they are very expensive & I am doing fine with what I have here. Me & my companion are getting along great! I have learned a lot about how to work with people since I have been here. My patience has grown immensely & I have learned to not get so angry with people. I don't like to admit it, but I had a problem with that back home. I have learned to be much more calm & patient & loving with other people. I try not to joke all the time because I think that some people can't tell that I am joking & it hurts them. So I don't really joke anymore. My communication skills are improving as well. I am much more decisive & I am better at making decisions that effect more than just myself. I was never very good at this because I was always fearful of making a decision that involved other people because I wasn't sure if they would agree or like my choice. I am getting more confident in myself & my communication is improving along with my willingness to share my thoughts & opinions as well as standing up for them.
   I can't believe that Axzelle is turning 2 this week! She is getting so big! I remember when she was born. I was up at the University of Utah because we were in the championship for football. I didn't even care that we lost because I got to go see her! The party sounds like fun. Send pictures! Even though I am terrible at that. I can't believe Dax is 6 months old. That's crazy, but also exciting! I sometimes use his age to determine how much time I have left, so it's fun seeing both of our progress at the same time! We are both growing so much right now, it's kind of funny to think about it that way. Speaking of Dax, thanks for the pictures you just sent! I love the one of him in the beanie. I love beanies. I miss mine.

   Anyway, I hope that this letter was full of information that helped inform you a little bit better of my situation here. I can't think of anything that I wanted to say. Hopefully I didn't forget anything. I do sometimes. Oh well! Love you all & miss you!
-Elder Staheli

Monday, November 11, 2013

Week 23: Monday November 11, 2013

Family,
   I apologize for taking so much time to write you all. As you can all imagine & as you have all heard, the damage here in the Philippines is incredible. My last few days have been filled with helping people with their homes, land, etc. We are extremely fortunate here in the Cebu mission because we were not directly hit or hit as hard as other areas. The concern is centered around the Tacloban where there have been recorded around 10,000 deaths. Also, there are 80 missionaries unaccounted for. My guess, hopefully I am correct, is that they are okay but they just have no way to communicate to the mission president or a way to reach temple grounds. However, I am especially worried because about half of my district in the MTC & more than half of my zone in the MTC reported to that mission. All we can do is pray & hope that they are doing alright. I would try to e-mail some of them & see how they are doing, but it would be pointless right now with no communication & I'm sure they are already flooded with e-mails to read from friends & family back home, so I will just wait until there is more information.
   I'm sure you are all wondering where I was & what I was doing during the storm. Of course, we had a knowledge of the storm a day or two before it actually hit so we were prepared. Well, I guess as prepared as you can be for something like this. I will tell you everything according to my time in which I am 14 hours ahead of you.
   I had no idea that a storm was heading our way until around Thursday afternoon. We received a text telling us to return to our apartments by 5:00 pm that evening. They also told us to go to the store & prepare a 72 hour kit. After we did that, we return & just waited. We were told not to leave our apartment at all the next day. All we could do then is just wait. . . It was strange to see what started off as a cloudy day turn into a typhoon. I actually hesitate to call it a typhoon because like I said, we were not hit nearly as hard here. During the day of the typhoon, I took a few naps & read a lot. It was not exciting whatsoever. I'm afraid that some of you are expecting some crazy story, but I'm sorry to say that I don't have one. We were permitted to return to work on Saturday, but our work was to go around helping those people in need. All day Saturday we were going around helping people with whatever, as I stated earlier. Sunday, we went to church & went around helping some more. Today, things are pretty much back to normal. We are going around working, teaching lessons, & of course we are still looking for opportunities to serve people. We have a few service projects planned for later this week & next week, but nothing too extensive.
   I hope this e-mail helps put your mind's at ease. I am grateful for all of your prayers & concern. But now, you should turn your prayers & thoughts to those in Tacloban. That is where the real damage is. I wish there was a way for me to go over there & help them, but all I can do is pray. I will still e-mail you all on Wednesday. Hopefully we will have a little more information. Thanks again. I love you.
-Elder Staheli

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Typhoon Haiyan Update: Church Supplying Relief Supplies to Those in Need

SALT LAKE CITY — 

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints expresses condolences
to the millions affected by Typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines and is
providing shelter, food, water and other basic supplies to evacuees and
displaced families.

An estimated 700,000 people are now displaced. In areas impacted by
 the storm, particularly in the eastern coastal regions, transportation, 
power and communication networks are down.
All Mormon missionaries serving in the Church’s 21 Filipino missions 
are accounted for, with the exception of some serving in the Philippines 
Tacloban Mission. Before the typhoon, missionaries had been moved to 
areas where they would be adequately sheltered, and the Church is working 
to establish contact with Tacloban mission leaders.
“A Church Welfare Department employee is traveling to the island of Leyte 
with communication equipment to establish contact with the Tacloban 
mission president,” said Stephen B. Allen, Missionary Department 
managing director. "We plan to be in communication with those in Leyte 
by Saturday in the Philippines.”
Efforts are also underway to make contact with Church members. 
More than 14,000 members and others have sought refuge in 200 
Church meetinghouses.
As daylight comes, the Church anticipates that missionaries throughout 
the country will begin assisting those in need.
Local Church leaders will spend the weekend assessing further needs of 
both members and the community. 


KSL:
Two days after one of the strongest typhoons on record slammed into the Philippines,
the death toll in the devastated country rises into the thousands.
As many as 10,000 people are believed dead in one city alone. Tacloban is the Leyte
provincial capital of 200,000 people and the biggest city on Leyte Island. About
300-400 bodies have already been recovered. A mass burial was planned Sunday
in Palo town near Tacloban.
Haiyan hit the eastern seaboard of the Philippine archipelago on Friday and quickly
barreled across its central islands before exiting into the South China Sea, packing
winds of 235 kilometers per hour (147 miles per hour) that gusted to 275 kph (170 mph),
and a storm surge that caused sea waters to rise 6 meters (20 feet).

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Week 22: Tuesday November 5, 2013

Family,
   I was very excited to hear all of your letters! As I have said in the past, they always make me so happy & they are a great source of strength during the difficult times in my mission. I was also extremely happy to see all of the pictures that you sent! Man, the kids are just getting cuter & cuter! I am so sad that I only had about 2 weeks with Daxton. I miss him so much. I obviously miss everyone so much, but he is the chubbiest at the moment so he has my priority. I hope he's still chubby when I get back.
   I have been thinking for the last little while about what I am going to write to you all this week. I hope you won't be disappointed when I say that nothing has really happened this week. It's been about the most typical week of my mission that I have had thus far. We are teaching families, talking to people on the street, & other typical missionary things. I wish I could report a baptism coming soon, but it doesn't look like that is going to happen. I wish more people would progress. However, there is this one family in my area right now, a less active family, who are coming back to church! Their last name is "Caintapan". They are awesome. The father is hilarious & the whole family is just so nice. We had dinner there last week & had a FHE with them. It was a blast.
   Everyone I have talked to comments on how good my language is & always tells me that I will for sure be training next transfer because of how good I am at the language. I think that training would be so fun! However, I am also not sure if I am ready. I feel fine in the language... most of the time. There are still times when my brain is just tired & refuses to understand what is being said. Because of that, I feel a little uncertain about my ability to train right now. We had zone interviews with President Schmutz this transfer & the first thing he said to me when I walked in the door was, "Elder Staheli, I hear your Visaya is very good!" He just sat there & smiled at me when he said that & I told him that I feel very confident in speaking, but my understanding sometimes is still a little bit difficult. I told that experience to my last companion, Elder Walker, & he told me that that is exactly what President said to him the transfer before he trained! I guess if I am called on to train a new missionary, I will be prepared. I will have to work much harder with the language I think, but I also think that I would maybe grow the most during that time & make great strides in my mission life.
   I am glad to see that Halloween went great. The kids' costumes were awesome! Over here, it's a little bit different. It's called "Kalag-Kalag" or "day of souls". They start on Nov. 1 & on that day everyone goes & visits the graves of people who have died & they pay their respects, do all of their weird Catholic stuff like leave food on the grave for the body? It's weird. Anyway, they do that during the daytime of Nov. 1 & when night comes, it's like the turning point & the souls come out or something. I'm not exactly sure, like I said, it's strange. They don't do trick or treating. Casey, I have heard that the Chiefs are playing great! That also makes me happy because I like Andy Reid & Alex Smith. I hope they continue to play well. Seager, isn't that your favorite team? That's also very good that BYU is playing so well! It sounds like they will get a good bowl game if they keep it up. Grandma & grandpa, I am jealous that you are going to Hawaii! That sounds like so much fun! It doesn't sound to good about Orlando, however. I will keep him in my prayers. Also, I haven't received any packages. It does take a while to get packages or letters, so just be patient. I'm sure it will show up. I didn't really care who won the World Series. I don't really like either team, but I probably would have rather had St. Lois win. Oh well! Dad, that's funny about the couple serving here. I will look for them! It also sounds like you had a very busy day with the girls! It sounded like fun, though.
   Well, like I said, there isn't much to report this week. I miss you & love you all.
-Elder Staheli